I Am A Piece of Work!

Have you ever heard someone say, "Well, isn't she a piece of work!"

I realized this morning, I AM a piece of work.

Philippians 1:6 says, "For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus." This verse tells me three things: 1) I am a piece of work; 2) I am an imperfect piece of work; and 3) Christ loves me and will never leave me un-mended.

I awoke pondering the blog I wrote yesterday on Dr. Paul Meier's book on Narcissists. It was so clear to me this morning that the books intention is not to fix someone else but to view our own hearts and minds before our loving Creator.

We get into so much trouble when we try to fix someone else. It's sort of like a computer, and the warning label states: "Only Authorized Repairman should open this casing". There is only ONE authorized Repairman in a Christian's life and that is the Lord Creator Himself. What is our job? To notify the repairman when we recognize something is wrong with our model.

Prayer is powerful and the Narcissist in our lives needs prayer, love and an extra measure of patience for they are as broken as we are.... especially if the Narcissist is ourselves.

Dr. Paul Meier's New Book

Paul Meier's most recent work is centered around the ancient-old syndrome: Narcissism. After years of counseling numerous clients, Dr. Meier began to experience the affects of this trait among Christian brothers and sisters. As an outcropping of his experience, he formulated a book that is sure to help millions.

"As I wrote it, I put in funny examples but also was reminded of all the pain my clients (and I) have suffered by the abuse of narcissists we have trusted in our pasts... and if you think you are perfect, you are a PERFECT NARCISSIST! The two therapists, with whom I wrote this book, and I think it will be extremely helpful to all who read it. It will give you a greater depth of understanding of human nature and provide a few laughs as you learn."

Dr. Meier's new book will help you discover if the stress in your relationships, whether personal or professional, are caused by yourself or others. What is narcissism and what can you do about it?

For more information visit www.youmightbeanarcissistif.com.

"Narcissism is nothing new, but as individuals become aware of those who suffer from this syndrome, it may seem very new".

As a tickler, here are some examples of "You may be a Narcissist if"....

1. you think the world revolves around you;

2. you demand excessive attention;

3. you tend to be controlling;

4. you are manipulative;

5. you are selfish;

6. you have little or no guilt for your own sins;

7. you think you are always right, and if someone else disagrees, they are wrong!

8. You use sarcasm and other critical comments

9. You grew up “spoiled” or abused—most often spoiled or the favorite child of one of the parents.

10. On the highway, you are frustrated with others driving.

11. In a prayer meeting, you find more spiritual avenues, or monopolize the prayer time

12. In any business arrangement, You fight for your rights above all others.